4 Ways to Teach Your Children the Value of a Dollar

Let’s face it; every parent wants their kids to have a better life than they had. One of the most important ways to help ensure that happens is to make sure your kids attend college. But college isn’t cheap, neither for the students nor their parents. Even those brainiacs who manage to land full-ride scholarships could tell you that the off-campus expenses add up fast. Here are a few ways you can help your kid bear the expenses of college.

1. Instill a Lasting Monetary Values System

Teach them the value of money and hard work long before university applications are being filled out. The absolute best way for any young person to learn to value money is to earn it themselves. Most jobs for young people don’t pay extraordinarily well, so each dollar earned is hard won. They’ll be far less likely to spend frivolously on wasteful things if their own sweat went into earning their spending cash.

2. Reward Good Behavior and Effort

Some people view an allowance as something to give to very young children, but that’s not the only way to handle these things. College is a busy, stressful time. Not every kid has time to work his or her way through with a full time job in addition to classes. A small allowance can help your student get out to have a little fun when cash from his or her summer job runs thin.

3. Give Children an Occasional Surprise Financial Boost

If your student has been working since early on in high school, learned the value of money, and is well on the road to being masters of his or her own checkbook, give a financial boost once or twice a year. Send money with the Reach card, which allows you to preset the spending limits. Unlike a regular credit card, you need not worry about your kid going out and spending money in an uncharacteristically un-thrifty fashion.

4. Show Children How Money Has Evolved with Inflation Over Time

The penny is nearing extinction daily. Some stores already have opted to “ban the penny.” That’s not because pennies are too small to be worthwhile, but because it actually costs more to create a penny than a penny is now worth. Inflation is to blame for this. Teach your kids to value dollars, and don’t worry too much about teaching lessons based on coinage. With inflation continuing from today’s levels, even nickels may well be banished in coming decades!

By teaching your kids to handle money with the sincerity of a banker, they will develop a respect for the green stuff. That doesn’t mean they can’t have fun along the way, but it does mean you will have helped to create financially responsible young adults. And those financial lessons will last a lifetime, even when some things they learn in college are long forgotten. After all, do you remember what you learned in Philosophy 204?

Keeping Arts in the School

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Discussions crop up here and there about whether it’s worth funding the arts in schools. There is so much that needs to be paid for, is it worth providing art classes, music classes, and drama classes? The answer is a resounding yes! If anything, the arts are currently underfunded.

So why do we need the arts? Too many of our students today lack in using creativity. Instead of learning how to creatively solve problems, they are instead given problems to solve that don’t require much thought. When outside of school, they are entertained by video games, movies, TV shows, and computers.

But creativity is essential to success. Even those students who don’t end up as artists or musicians still need creativity. You’ll find that the most amazing business leaders are ones that are able to look at a problem that seems unsolvable and figure out a solution that benefits all those who are involved. Creativity is used in every aspect of our lives. Even parents need creativity in thinking up fun activities for their children to do or creative ways to teach children what behavior is expected of them.

And the arts can lay a foundation for other learning. Did you ever think about how much math is needed for music? At the beginning of each song is a fraction that is used to determine which notes get the beat and how many notes are in each measure. And that’s just the tip of the iceberg. There is so much benefit to having arts included in the curriculum.

Dealing with the Tween Years of Junior High

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A child reaching junior high is on the cusp of the first big change in his life. Sixth grade is probably the last year of sanity before puberty strikes, bringing with it many changes. A parent needs to exercise great patience in order to get through the tumultuous years.

Up until this point, it was easy for the student to focus on their school work without much distraction. The hormones still haven’t set in and life tends to be much simpler. However, once puberty starts in, the ability to focus on schoolwork starts becoming trickier. The temptations to distraction need to be battled, especially considering that the junior high years can make or break the student’s chances to get into a top high school. And even in systems where there is only one high school to funnel into, study habits need to be formed at this stage to overcome the next set of changes.

This is the stage of life where parents need to sit down with their children and have frank talks with them. Their child’s world is changing, and if there is no parental context, it can be a confusing time. The major issue to deal with is the fact that emotions go all over the map at this point. Having a talk about the consequences of their actions is extremely important.

Eventually, this too shall pass as it has for untold number of tweens. Parents that do their due diligence by working and talking with their children survive intact, as do their kids.